Filming Your First BDSM Experience - Yes Or No?
Having the first BDSM experience can be stressful as it is, but the idea of filming it can be mind-blowing. Or is it? If you don’t like the experience, you can always delete the video, but what if you end up liking it and having the time of your life? I was thinking about this for a long time before I had my first real BDSM experience before I decided to hire a professional to do it.
I was never a ladies man and I couldn’t find a girlfriend easily, let alone a hookup. The idea of a BDSM experience was somewhat out of the question and I knew I’ll have to hire an escort to have the best possible experience. I was really into BDSM even before I did something kinky for the first time so I took the time to do some research and read as many London escort reviews as I can before I actually hired an escort. I really wanted to have the best possible experience so I even planned out everything I wanted to do.
Finding Someone To Do It With
When I realized I liked kinky things and I wanted to try BDSM, I started looking for a girl I could do it with. I was really surprised at how difficult it was because every girl I dated was very conservative and didn’t want to do anything as kinky as I did. Girl after girl, I was getting more and more disappointed by the fact that no one wanted to try anything kinky.
I decided to go with a professional so I would get the experience I was looking for. Finding an escort who was into BDSM and was willing to let me record everything was as difficult as it gets. I browsed escort profiles for weeks until I came across an escort who looked good, liked BDSM, and wanted to let me film our encounter. It did cost me a little more than I anticipated, but it was worth every penny!
Know What You Want First
The biggest issue when it comes to BDSM is that it’s a very complex part of sex. There are so many things you can do that are considered BDSM that it’s crazy! Light BDSM can include just getting tied up and having regular sex. Extreme BDSM can include all sorts of sex toys, humiliation, different equipment, and actual physical pain.
No matter if you’re going to explore with your girlfriend or with a professional escort it’s very important to know exactly what you want! If you just say you want to try BDSM, it can mean a lot of things and in different intensities. BDSM is very complex and the more you know what you want, the better the experience will be.
I knew exactly what I wanted. I wanted to be tied up to the bed and let the girl do everything to me. I always imagined a girl teasing me, doing some edging action on me, and after a while giving me the best sex I’ve had in my life! I was tied up and blindfolded during my first real BDSM experience with an escort and thankfully, she let me film it! Once I watched the entire video, I realized it was my all-time fantasy! If I hadn’t known what I wanted, the entire thing would be very awkward because the girl would have to try different things until she realized what felt best to me and what I wanted to see in the video later.
If you’re planning on hiring an escort, no matter if it’s for a little BDSM action or anything else, make sure you know exactly what you want and plan out the entire date. If you’re specific, she’ll know exactly what to do and when to do it during your session and it will make your experience absolutely amazing!
The Final Verdict
Although I experienced BDSM while filming only once, I can definitely say it was a thing I’m glad I did. Even though I imagined it would be with my girlfriend, I didn’t regret calling an escort and filming the entire experience. When I think about it, it may be even better because she knew exactly what to do and she was more than experienced to do what I wanted her to.
If I decided to wait and find a girlfriend who wanted to film our first BDSM experience, it may have been a better feeling, but I doubt it would look as amazing on film! I personally think that homemade videos look better when both partners are experienced enough.
In the end, it’s easy to erase any video but in order to make it a great video, you should be confident that you’re experienced enough to do the things you like. If you’re planning on streaming on some kind of cam site, you should rehearse a couple of times before you record your performance for other people to watch and enjoy!
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